Another year without Dad
Today marks another year without my Dad. Nine years since he passed, and yet some memories still feel so vivid, like they’re wrapped in their own kind of light. I keep thinking about the last time he was home before palliative care. Just the two of us in the living room, watching Practical Magic, Hocus Pocus, and One Magic Christmas. Those were “our” movies. I can still hear him laugh at the same parts he always did. I drifted off a couple of times — I was running around back then, taking him to treatments, helping with groceries and laundry, cooking dinners, juggling work. But even when I fell asleep, just being next to him felt comforting in a way I didn’t fully appreciate until later. I lost my Mom a few years after him, and I did the same for her — the errands, the meals, the appointments, the long quiet moments. Being there for both of them was hard, but it was a gift too. I’m grateful I could show them the love they gave me my whole life. They both adored Christmas — the li...